My son finally found his thing, I thought.

We recently tried skiing during a family getaway weekend and he loved it, so I enrolled him in lessons at a hill closer to our home.


He was so excited… and I was so nervous.

I knew if he didn’t have a positive experience it could leave a bitter taste in his mouth and he may not ever pursue the sport. Unfortunately, it turns out my fears were warranted, but there is a bit of a happy ending. Here’s the story and the lesson I learned.

How a Ski School Turned me Into An Angry Mama Bear

MF’s Post Workout Rant: The balance between advocating for your child and not turning into a mama bear lunatic….*I must note these lessons were not at Sir Sam’s where we had a super positive experience.

Posted by Michelle Ferreri on Sunday, January 15, 2017

As mad as I was in that moment, I still found the humour that I had one VERY strong willed kid who knew he wasn’t ready for that hill and instead, chose to walk down a ski hill in ski boots.

On the way home that night he said to me, “You know Mom, I knew I wasn’t ready for that giant hill, how did they not know?”

Another really important moment I want to point out in this story is what my son THOUGHT I was going to say when he came barrelling down the hill like the HULK.  He told me he thought I was going to be disappointed in him for not skiing down the hill and walking.  The moment I said to him “You did nothing wrong, this is not your fault, they put you in the wrong group”, he completely diffused.  If I had of yelled at him or disciplined him, I don’t think he would have ever skied again.

But we will be back.

MF

Michelle

Parenting, fashion, life. Mom of three, wife of one, professional fun haver. Canadian vlogger. Do the right thing... but be funny about it. Try everything EXCEPT crack.

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I’m Michelle Ferreri aka MF

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